Wedding Gift Registries
First, registries can be helpful resources for wedding gift giving, because they show you what a couple would like from a particular retailer's selection of merchandise. While it's tempting to pick out a truly unique wedding gift that no one else is likely to give, keep in mind that many couples have taken the time to put together a registry because these are items they really need and want. Serving dishes, silverware and fine china are traditional wedding gifts that are always appreciated, along with anything else the couple has indicated they would like, whether from a registry or other sources.
Unique Wedding Gifts
Second, feel free to look beyond gift registries if you have an inspired wedding gift idea that the couple is sure to love. Memorable and unique wedding gifts come from your knowledge of the couple -- their lifestyle, what they like, what they need. Gifts.com's Gift Finder can help you find inspired and thoughtful gifts that match the happy couple's personalities and interests. You can start your unique wedding gift search here.
Wedding Gift Etiquette
Next, do send your gift before or after the ceremony. Don't bring it to the reception, even if a gift table will be provided. Gifts brought to the event saddle the couple with the chore of storing presents during the reception and then getting them home -- more work on an already very busy day.
Finally, think through the specifics of the situation when you select either a traditional or a unique wedding gift: With any choice, first give thought to cultural traditions that the bride and groom hold dear. When attending an out-of-town wedding, plan ahead to be a considerate guest. If you're struggling to find the right present, then try gift certificates. When you can't attend the wedding, you can still celebrate by sending a gift to the couple. Last, find tasteful ways to congratulate a bride and groom who didn't invite guests to their ceremony.
Weddings are a routine part of society, but to each couple they are exhilaratingly special events. Let your carefully chosen wedding gift reflect that significance.