Finding the gift for the members of your bridal party can often spark a gift-giving dilemma, because of their eclectic composition: Not only personalities, but also depth of acquaintance can vary widely -- your attendants may include siblings and old friends as well as soon-to-be in-laws whom you may know only slightly.
You may be tempted, then, to select a unique present for each person. This kind impulse usually proves equally difficult, because the gifts must be equal in value -- and obviously so, because any explaining would be inappropriate and awkward for everyone concerned.
Try a simpler way to lend diversity to your wedding party gifts: Choose nearly identical presents that differ only slightly in color or style. You can do this easily by selecting similar items from one maker's line. For example, for bridesmaids, jewelry, evening purses, and high-end mirror compacts are lovely standards. For the groomsmen, watches, cufflinks (if the wedding's attire requires them) and monogrammed wallets are classic options.
A yet safer route is to give each set of attendants the same gifts -- charmingly, this also adds to the camaraderie. For the bridesmaids, consider a personalized jewelry box, spa gift certificates or a bath and beauty gift basket, or a pendant and earring set they may wear for the wedding. For the groomsmen, money clips, flasks or high-end pocket knives are classy and useful gifts that many men appreciate. Both groups may appreciate quality career accessories, such as designer pens, silver letter openers or leather business card cases. Get them personalized with their name or initials for an extra special touch. Try Gift.com's GiftFinder for more wedding party gift ideas.
With these guidelines in mind, use your choice of materials and styles to reflect the personality of your wedding, to give your attendants a memento of the occasion and express your gratitude for their friendship and support on this special day.